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| Source: Inc. |
For the fresh graduate preparing for a job interview, or for a decision on a job application-- it is advisable to keep a positive mindset. One way to keep that positivity is to emulate successful people.
Below are observations of what successful people never do as listed by Chad Perry, a veteran sales leader from Motivosity, a cloud-based rewards and recognition platform that helps companies increase employee engagement, retention and productivity.
1. Never Live in the Past
Individuals that live in the past miss seeing what the future holds. They're blinded by what could have been, instead of seeing what can be.
Unsuccessful people trade yesterday for today, and forfeit tomorrow.
You can let your past shape you, but don't let it imprison you.
2. Respect Risk, Don't Fear It
The fear of risk will lead to a lifetime of regret. That's because when you don't take that occasional risk, you'll spend a lifetime looking back and wondering "if only" and "what if?"
Educate yourself. Do your homework. Trust your gut.
But don't be afraid to jump every now and then, even when the only thing you can see is what your imagination believes.
3. Never Dwell on Failure
We live in a world obsessed with perfection. With winning. With succeeding at every attempt. With participation trophies.
The reality is: That's not real.
Success doesn't come without bumps and bruises. Great wins rarely come without great losses.
If you fail, pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and keep going.
(Nobody is watching that close anyway.)
4. Never Make Excuses
Excuses come because you're afraid to take a risk. They come because you tried and failed.
Sometimes they come because you didn't try...and you failed.
If you didn't try, don't cover it up with an excuse. You were lazy. No one will buy it.
Go back and try again.
5. Never Hold a Grudge
Let it go.
Holding a grudge is living in a past that you can never change.
Holding a grudge will only keep holding you back. Not them.
6. Never Hold Others Back
If someone else succeeds, it doesn't mean you fail. There's plenty to go around.
Let them try, and win.
Be a gracious winner, and an even bigger cheerleader.
8. Never Waste Time
Not wasting time isn't the same thing as always being busy.
It means making time count.
It means not trading your valuable and limited time for something of little worth.
Unlike a bank account, you cannot increase the amount of time you have. Once you use it, it's gone. There's no getting more of it.
Choose carefully how you invest your time.
Individuals that live in the past miss seeing what the future holds. They're blinded by what could have been, instead of seeing what can be.
Unsuccessful people trade yesterday for today, and forfeit tomorrow.
You can let your past shape you, but don't let it imprison you.
2. Respect Risk, Don't Fear It
The fear of risk will lead to a lifetime of regret. That's because when you don't take that occasional risk, you'll spend a lifetime looking back and wondering "if only" and "what if?"
Educate yourself. Do your homework. Trust your gut.
But don't be afraid to jump every now and then, even when the only thing you can see is what your imagination believes.
3. Never Dwell on Failure
We live in a world obsessed with perfection. With winning. With succeeding at every attempt. With participation trophies.
The reality is: That's not real.
Success doesn't come without bumps and bruises. Great wins rarely come without great losses.
If you fail, pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and keep going.
(Nobody is watching that close anyway.)
4. Never Make Excuses
Excuses come because you're afraid to take a risk. They come because you tried and failed.
Sometimes they come because you didn't try...and you failed.
If you didn't try, don't cover it up with an excuse. You were lazy. No one will buy it.
Go back and try again.
5. Never Hold a Grudge
Let it go.
Holding a grudge is living in a past that you can never change.
Holding a grudge will only keep holding you back. Not them.
6. Never Hold Others Back
If someone else succeeds, it doesn't mean you fail. There's plenty to go around.
Let them try, and win.
Be a gracious winner, and an even bigger cheerleader.
7. Never Rely on Luck
The funny thing about luck?
It finds the people who look for it, not the ones who are waiting for it.
Unless you're playing the lottery, your chances of finding luck increase the more you're out there working, hustling, and not taking no for an answer.
Successful people find luck because they work at it.
The funny thing about luck?
It finds the people who look for it, not the ones who are waiting for it.
Unless you're playing the lottery, your chances of finding luck increase the more you're out there working, hustling, and not taking no for an answer.
Successful people find luck because they work at it.
8. Never Waste Time
Not wasting time isn't the same thing as always being busy.
It means making time count.
It means not trading your valuable and limited time for something of little worth.
Unlike a bank account, you cannot increase the amount of time you have. Once you use it, it's gone. There's no getting more of it.
Choose carefully how you invest your time.
9. Never Accept Limitations
Babe Ruth didn't hit a home run his first time at bat.
Michael Jordan didn't sink a three-pointer on his first attempt.
Tiger Woods didn't hit a hole-in-one on his first swing.
Being successful takes practice. It takes courage. It takes persistence to work through the kinks.
Each of us has brilliance in us. You just have to get beyond the limitations you create in your own mind to find out how successful you can be,
P.S. Thinking of gifting a family member or friend a graduation gift this October? Please consider "Pointers for New College Graduates" available at Fully Booked, St. Paul's, Pauline's, and Catholic Book Center.
Babe Ruth didn't hit a home run his first time at bat.
Michael Jordan didn't sink a three-pointer on his first attempt.
Tiger Woods didn't hit a hole-in-one on his first swing.
Being successful takes practice. It takes courage. It takes persistence to work through the kinks.
Each of us has brilliance in us. You just have to get beyond the limitations you create in your own mind to find out how successful you can be,
P.S. Thinking of gifting a family member or friend a graduation gift this October? Please consider "Pointers for New College Graduates" available at Fully Booked, St. Paul's, Pauline's, and Catholic Book Center.
